People tend to misuse this word, “player”. How is one a player if they talk to multiple people without being in a relationship? ..it’s because they’re NOT a player. You can’t expect someone to give you everything when you just started to converse with them one on one.. If you want that “everything” to happen, at least get to know that person inside and out then genuinely start a relationship from there. You should only consider someone a player if they cheat on you while being in a legit relationship; boyfriend and girlfriend. If that person isn’t in a relationship with you, who are you to tell them what to do or what not to do? ..only thing you can do is hope - hoping that they aren’t going to prove you right with your already second thoughts.